Two paediatric experts share why, when it comes to deciding what toys to donate to children in hospital, you should think no further than soft and snuggly teddy bears.
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Ariella Lew, an experienced paediatric nurse and Founder and Director of Kids on Track Consultancy, says she’ll never forget the first time she watched a play therapist give a child a teddy bear to demonstrate the procedure that they were going to have done. She explains:
The child watched in wonder and couldn’t believe it when they were given the teddy bear to keep.
Using teddy bears as a preparation toy or as the marking of a milestone procedure is a wonderful way to allow children to articulate their thoughts, feelings and fears through play and also to be allowed to continue to process this as they get to keep the teddy.
Teddy bears are a simple and holistic alternative that benefit children in all phases of illness from diagnosis, treatment cycles and in recovery phase shares Deb Herdman, a Nurse Sleep Specialist and creator of Nigh Nigh, a sleep consultancy and sleep resources for all ages. She explains:
Cuddling your favourite ted not only gives psychological comfort as a companion, friend and confidant but also has benefits to physical health.
By helping to release hormones that make you feel less stressed and anxious means vital signs like respiratory rate and heart rate regulate and less anxiety can mean less pain...Teddies are tangible, can be cuddled, stroked, dressed and spoken to, providing comfort whenever it’s needed.
Ariella, quoted earlier, continues:
The comforting nature of cuddling a teddy bear is huge and for many children gives a dose of a sensory stimulation often missing in hospital in a sterile environment.
The feeling of a teddy bear who becomes a friend replacement (like a pet or friend from the outside world) is something I have witnessed many times and is lovely to see. I have watched many a health professional talk to children through their teddy bears!
One of the most amazing things about teddy bears that Ariella has observed, is that they don’t age.
I know of patients now grown up who have teddy bears on their own children’s beds that remind them of their journeys and of times that they overcame...These rewards, in the form of teddy bears in these instances, are comforting and safe reminders of a difficult time and what has been survived. They can almost become family heirlooms!